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Why Empathy Is Essential to Learn and How to Be Empathetic!

Empathy is an essential skill for deepening our connections with others, but most of our attempts at empathy fall into one of three traps: blocking, fixing, or sympathizing.

Our best intentions are not enough to ensure our loved ones feel heard and understood. We need to develop—and master—the ability to empathize and show compassion for others. Developing empathy requires practicing and applying critical emotional intelligence skills to validate and comfort our loved ones in their time of need.

Estimated reading time: 4 minutes

Posted in Emotional Intelligence, How to Build Empathy

Back to School!  3 Simple Parenting Strategies to Ease Summer's End

While kids everywhere are milking as much fun from the last days of summer, parents have the big job of preparing for the new school year.

As summer winds down and the back-to-school season approaches, it’s normal for both kids and parents to feel a little anxious. After a few short months of freedom and relaxation, the transition back to school can feel overwhelming for everyone. But with a few simple strategies, parents can help their children adjust to new routines, ease back-to-school anxiety, and make this transition smoother for the whole family

Estimated reading time: 4 minutes

Posted in Perfectly Imperfect Parenting

Is Procrastination Stealing Your Happiness?—and What to Do About It!

I procrastinated writing this article. The irony runs deep. Even after I completed my research and could begin, I still put it off. You would think the topic alone would be enough to light a fire under my fingers, not wanting to be my own example of what not to do, but no, just the opposite, which ironically is the nature of procrastination. Let’s dig in.

Estimated reading time: 4 minutes

Posted in Emotional Intelligence & Fitness

The Best Marriage Advice: An Intentional Marriage Is a Happy Marriage

Relationships, like everything, have specific keys and habits that either make them easier, more successful, and happier or harder, less successful, and unhappy. Do you know what relationship habits are needed for a happy marriage? Have you shifted into cruise control in your relationship and only think good intentions, but don’t act on them? Or do you make daily choices and actions to intentionally love your partner?

Estimated reading time: 4 minutes

Posted in Love, Marriage, and Relationships

Why Emotional Intelligence and Mindfulness Are Critical in Business and Leadership

Being able to step back and evaluate your emotions and reactions while regulating your responses are signs of emotional intelligence in a leader. The capacity to recognize and effectively manage personal emotions in ourselves and others are all critical abilities in business and leadership. However, emotional intelligence skills are generally not taught when gaining degrees for the business world, such as architecture school. Emotional intelligence (or EQ for Emotional Quotient) can be learned, though, which my husband found out as a business owner.

Posted in Emotional Intelligence & Fitness

Spark Critical Thinking for Kids While Awakening Their Creativity

You might be wondering, can we really teach critical thinking skills to our children? Aren’t these abilities something that kids develop on their own? Or do people manage to think logically without any  education in logic and critical thinking?

Regardless of whether children can learn through trial and error, significant information showcases the incredible benefits of learning, practicing, and integrating this skill intentionally.Estimated reading time: 4 minutes

Posted in Perfectly Imperfect Parenting

How to Teach Your Child Emotional Regulation Skills

When my son was around nine, I moved in with my current husband. His two kids were with us two days a week and every other weekend. (Yes, we were now a blended family.) My son, who was living with his dad, was with us on the corresponding weekends. He loved his stepbrother dearly; they were instant and close friends from the start.

I still don't know what prompted it, but one day they got into an altercation, and my son stomped on his stepbrother’s neck. I was in shock and disbelief. My emotions raged, every cell on high alert. Once I knew my stepson was ok, I swept my son outside and around [...]

Posted in Perfectly Imperfect Parenting, Emotional Intelligence & Fitness

3 Hidden Parenting Mistakes that Promote People-Pleasing Behavior in Children

People-pleasing behavior is fraught with many emotional land mines: resentment, exhaustion, losing touch with our needs, seeking to be liked while giving up our desires and dreams, repressing emotions, and the impossible task of keeping everyone happy (to name just a few). Every parent I’ve worked with who identifies themselves as a people-pleaser asks, “What can I do to ensure that my child doesn’t become a people-pleaser like me?” I’ve never met any parent who aspires to raise compliant pleasers.

Estimated reading time: 7 minutes

Posted in Perfectly Imperfect Parenting, Parenting Favorites

6 Ways to Increase Inner Peace by Practicing Radical Acceptance

Radical acceptance is a practice defined and developed by American Psychologist Marsha Linehan, the world-renowned creator of dialectical behavior therapy (DBT). Influenced by Buddhism, the practice of radical acceptance advocates the belief that the reality outside of our control must be accepted rather than fought against. It posits that fighting against yourself or your current situation can result in deep, emotional suffering, even greater than the situation that caused it.

Posted in Emotional Intelligence

Healthy Use of Technology—How to Find a Balance in Families

In today's fast-paced world, an endless parade of technology and entertainment choices compete for family closeness. Do you ever find it challenging to break away from your smartphone or computer and make time for true connection in your relationships? Do you spend more time with your computer than your spouse? Does your teen seem more interested in his X-box than family time?

Technology's impact on families is substantial. Learn some tips to keep the Techno-Love Balance. 

Estimated reading time: 3 minutes

Posted in Perfectly Imperfect Parenting

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