How many of you grew up encouraged to freely express your emotions when you were a child? What happened when you got angry? Or sad? Growing up in a family where the whole spectrum of emotions was accepted, encouraged, and explored is rare, yet it’s one way that children develop emotional intelligence. Most of us grew up with a double standard where it wasn’t okay for us to express our challenging emotions, but it was okay for our parents to react out of tiredness or busyness.
Do you remember seeing your mother cry when you were young? I do. I remember asking my mom what was wrong as she [...]